I have to admit—ever since COVID, I really don’t like being around people.
Not because I’m afraid of getting sick. It’s not that.
It’s just that when we were all closed in, I found it peaceful.
Like… too peaceful.
And I realized I didn’t need all that interaction.
But I also know—that’s not what we’re called to.
People are good for us, believe it or not.
Even though, honestly, most people are assholes.
Still, God calls us to work with each other.
To be with each other.
And most often, to connect with each other.
That doesn’t mean we have to be all up in each other’s faces 24/7.
But it does mean we need to be available to one another.
Lately, I’ve been thinking a lot about synchronicity.
It’s one of those beautifully weird concepts that Carl Jung brought into the psychological world—a kind of “meaningful coincidence” that isn’t caused by one thing triggering another but still feels undeniably connected.
Like the universe winks at you.
Or God whispers, “See? I’m here.”
And honestly? I’ve come to believe synchronicity might be one of God’s native languages.
It’s not loud. It’s not linear.
It’s subtle. Personal.
Often wrapped in timing you can’t explain and symbolism you can’t shake.
It’s when something small and unexpected helps you find the thread again—
the one that reminds you life isn’t random.
That you’re not drifting.
That connection still exists—
in quiet places and in very loud places.
And sometimes, it shows up in the middle of Target.
I’m one of those people strangers talk to.
And I don’t mean just polite, “how ’bout this weather” stuff.
Nope. People will start telling me their life stories.
Right there. Aisle seven. No warm-up.
It’s like I have a stamp on my forehead that says,
“Psychologist—Speak Here.”
And depending on my schedule… and my mood…
I’ll engage.
Sometimes I’m all in—heart open, listening.
Other times, I’m mentally scrolling my to-do list and praying for a graceful exit.
But either way, I know those moments aren’t just random.
There’s a thread there.
And I think…
maybe these are God’s divine appointments.
And I should pay attention.
Maybe they just need someone to see them.
To care.
Perhaps I can refer them to someone—or help them right there.
I’ll never know unless I’m open to the moment.
But here’s your WARNING:
You’ve got to be spiritually in tune when dealing with strangers.
Because remember what I said earlier—some people are assholes.
They will take advantage of your kindness.
And some, unfortunately, may even mean you harm.
Discernment matters.
Compassion isn’t foolish—but it is vulnerable.
So stay rooted. Stay wise. Stay awake.
How, might you ask?
Well, that goes back to living your truth.
I happen to be a trained counselor—but I was also born with this gift.
Jerry was born with a velvet hammer.
He’s diplomatic and still gets the point across.
Another friend of ours is a genius with machines—that’s his gift.
Another is calm in emergencies. And so on…
God blesses each of us with something we’re good at.
It could be something as quiet and powerful as the gift of listening.
So, if God is going to make a divine appointment for us,
it will most likely be to use the gifts He’s given us.
Be open.
Ask: “God, is this what You want?”
And then—act.
Thread or Tangle?
The next time someone unexpectedly speaks to you—whether in the grocery store, at the gas pump, or while waiting in line—pause for just one moment.
Instead of reacting with annoyance, curiosity, or concern, try asking yourself:
🧵 “Is this a thread… or a tangle?”
- If it’s a thread, it may be part of a divine appointment—a moment stitched into your day for a reason.
- If it’s a tangle, it might still hold purpose—but it requires discernment to gently unravel without getting caught in it.
Then reflect:
- Am I showing up as the person God gifted me to be in this moment?
- Is this encounter calling forth my strength… or testing my boundaries?
- Can I connect with compassion without losing clarity?
“Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus…”
—Philippians 2:5
Christ wasn’t swayed by every voice—but He never missed the voice He was meant to hear.
Stay open. Stay wise. Stay willing.
And trust that even the threads that appear frayed may be part of something beautifully woven.
The Pondering Place 
What I have found is synchronicity happens when I let go of any personal agenda, or attachments. Let go and let God is one of those sayings from 12 step groups.
All I have to do is just show up, and the plan unfolds. An example of that is when I’m trying to figure something out. I think, and think, and think, until I can’t think anymore! It’s in the complete letting go when the answer shows up.
God knows more than I do. My life works better when I stop trying to be God. His plan is way better than mine!
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